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    Re: Child Protective Services

    Hi ..I have a question about CPS……I wander if anyone has some advice for my situation. My daughter age 26 next month….has 3 precious children.. ages 5+, just turned 4 and just turned 3 (the youngest are 11 months apart!)
    She was living in Virginia with hubby who was in the military…we are from TX and son-in-law is from Memphis TN…..they met when he was at FT Hood and then ended up in Norfolk…..all the children were born in VA. When the baby was 4 months old my daughter left her husband and moved back to TX w/me. She was not here long before she starting using drugs…ice….after 2 years of her spiraling downward I went to court to modify her parental relationship. hoping that if she thought she was losing the children she would get straight. She agreed to outpatient treatment and random UV from the court. The treatment was a joke…and apparently she had ways of “getting around” the piss tests. When we requested that she take a hair follicle test, she refused and out of frustration I washed my hands of it. I filed a motion to nonsuit the case and told her she was on her own and what ever happens ..happens , but she better not let any thing happen to the children. Now , one thing I need to make clear…..she loves her kids and she takes good care of them…but doing the drugs she keeps losing her job, being evicted, writing hot checks… and as long as momma that’s me is taking care of everything she can continue in that behavior. The hardest thing I’ve ever done is step out of the situation and let it fall apart. AND IT DID!
    CPS took the children from her and she signed a voluntary placement with her friend…. ..who BTW has 3 children of her own…that lasted about 2 weeks! The children came back to me.
    Well then steps up XSON-IN- LAW who has been conveniently out of the picture and acting like he could care less what happens to the kids ..never calls them…never returns calls…just “living his life like he has no children”. CPS places the children w/him.
    … After CPS contacted him , I was hearing from him almost everyday for about 2 weeks … It was my opinion then that the children needed to get to know their father and that his fiancé was ok and would take good care of them…(cps did background checks on them both and visited their house) I helped him by bringing the children to Memphis, also I wanted to see for myself where he was living and check out the situation.
    but right after that, it began to get hard to reach him again ..I would leave messages begging him to let the children call me or to tell me a good time to call …they have been w/him for 7 weeks now ..and I’ve only got to talk to the children a few times. The last time I talked to them My 4 yr old grandson was saying “grandma are you coming to get us?”

    Xson-in-law is acting like the “all knowing super parent” now, when for the past 2+ years I’ve been the only real stability they have known. I don’t think there is much on the books for grandparent rights!! :mad:

    I’ve said all this to say….My daughter still has managing conservator ship of the children…..they have joint custody. She has been in a residence treatment center for 8 weeks now and is making great progress…I think she has snapped ..realizing mom can’t help her and if she doesn’t get it together, xsoninlaw.com will have the children for good. :eek:

    SO HERE IS THE QUESTION: Just because CPS placed the children w/soninlaw.com that has not changed the fact that she still has “physical custody” (that’s the wording in the divorce decree) right? And if that has not changed the original custody order CAN CPS keep her from going to get the children…and does she have to wait for them to close the case??? If she has done what they require.. (she hasn’t been provided with anything stating what she is required to do to get them back) can she go get them back from xsoninlaw.com???? :confused:

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    Re: Child Protective Services

    Quote Originally Posted by Bhopefull
    I don’t think there is much on the books for grandparent rights!! :mad:
    YES, there is. You'd be surprised how many rights grandparents actually do have. Especially, if you have been involved in their lives.

    I'm sorry for you & your family to be going through all of this. I've known others who have gone through similar situations & some who are going through it now. Drugs are tearing up so many people & families today.

    Anyway, you really do need to talk to a lawyer....for 2 reasons.

    First being, that you do have Grandparents rights & the children do need you to stay a part of their lives. I'm sure all of this has been traumatic enough on them. (at least the kids have eachother)

    Secondly, CPS has been known for not "properly closing" cases, they sometimes leave loose ends. Whenever someone is involved w/CPS it is a MUST that they have their attorney double check that all is "properly closed".

    You need to have an attorney look over this entire situation from a legal standpoint. CPS may have given the ex-husband full parental gaurdianship. I mean, I don't know....??
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    Re: Child Protective Services

    Yeah, I'm going to make an appt w/ my lawyer next week. He's the one that said that grandparents don't have much rights inTX. He did say we could go to court to ask for visitation but it's not a given. I'm just thinking that xsoninlaw.com can't keep the children's mother from them ...he is just using this now to "get back" at my daughter. But when she finishes the treatment program...CPS should be out of it!! I hope!
    Thank you for answering me and I appreciate your concern

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    Re: Child Protective Services

    Quote Originally Posted by Bhopefull
    I'm just thinking that xsoninlaw.com can't keep the children's mother from them ...he is just using this now to "get back" at my daughter. But when she finishes the treatment program...CPS should be out of it!! I hope!
    This is why you need the attorney, or more so your daughter needs the attorney. You & your daughter need to know exactly what CPS has & is doing at all times. She should never sign anything w/o her attorney!

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    :D .........You're funny Tommy!

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    Re: Child Protective Services

    I had an oven fire last night, and I called the fire department. Since I had been sick for about a week and 1/2 (Cold and Flu), I hadn't cleaned my house. The head fire guy said he had to report it to DHS. What do I do? I can't help that I was sick. Any how any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you, and God Bless.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mpo7112839
    I had an oven fire last night, and I called the fire department. Since I had been sick for about a week and 1/2 (Cold and Flu), I hadn't cleaned my house. The head fire guy said he had to report it to DHS. What do I do? I can't help that I was sick. Any how any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you, and God Bless.
    Is he just reporting the oven fire? I think that is just standard procedure. Pick up the house, clean but not pristine.

    Are you renting? If so, it may be to protect you while living in the home to make sure that all codes are being met by the landlord.


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    no, i ment i hadn't done dishes in a week. what was i suppose to do clean the house before i called? Thank you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mpo7112839
    no, i ment i hadn't done dishes in a week. what was i suppose to do clean the house before i called? Thank you.
    No, but by your post and panic, I thought maybe the house was a total wreck inside.

    It sounds like it's just standard procedure. Are you a renter?

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    Re: Child Protective Services

    Quote Originally Posted by mpo7112839
    no, i ment i hadn't done dishes in a week. what was i suppose to do clean the house before i called? Thank you.

    So now, what's the condition of your dishes, house-cleaning?
    Have you been well? How's the Roach situation?

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    at the dates and saw they were old post.

    This Thread; Child Protetive Sevices, must have somehow gotten revived.

    Anyhow, Tommy WHo seemed like he was the pivot on the scale
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    Quote Originally Posted by mpo7112839
    I had an oven fire last night, and I called the fire department. Since I had been sick for about a week and 1/2 (Cold and Flu), I hadn't cleaned my house. The head fire guy said he had to report it to DHS. What do I do? I can't help that I was sick. Any how any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you, and God Bless.
    It would have to be pretty bad (I would think, but who knows :rolleyes: ) for them to think that DHS needed to be aware of the living conditions.
    As long as your kids are well taken care of, keep your house clean enough to where it's not an "unsanitary" inviroment for the kids to live in....I wouldn't worry too much.

    They will probably have someone from DHS come out & check things out (maybe more than once). But if they do take the kids, then you need to get a lawyer w/in the 1st 24hrs. A lawyer can get the kids placed back in the home w/in the 1st 24hrs....after 24hrs then no. Then you're working w/the system from there in order to get the kids placed back into the home.

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