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  1. #1
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    Apr 2014

    Dating Site Scam

    I worked for a site I don't even know the name because they are not that stupid. But it was a dating site and the people on the site mainly men were under the impression that they were talking to singles who wanted NSA action. In actual fact everyone on the site was employed to work there as an administrator and none of the profiles were real anyone who worked for the site who was found making dates to meet anyone or who even mentioned a meeting within two weeks of the date it was, was instantly dismissed.

    Now I know people on here will probably get their knickers in a twist and start saying how terrible that is as I have seen in other posts.
    In this instance I disagree because most of the people on that site were dirty old farts with proud images of their shrivelled little penises on their dp's. Attempting to cheat on their wives with girls less than half their age so they can feel young again. What is that they say you're only as old as the girl your feeling. LMAO

    Also the messages were extortionate something like 10 to send seven now at that rate once you had been let down a few times by someone way out of your league anyway wouldn't you just admit defeat?
    Even after saying this sites a scam blah blah blah. I have been told they still log on and it's still going, I saw men who had been on there for over a year. 10 for 7 messages a year later???

    STUPIDITY...people can only do to you what YOU let them wise up fools...

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Feb 2016

    Re: Dating Site Scam

    Dating & romance

    Scammers take advantage of people looking for romantic partners, often via dating websites, apps or social media by pretending to be prospective companions. They play on emotional triggers to get you to provide money, gifts or personal details.

    How this scam works

    Dating and romance scams often take place through online dating websites, but scammers may also use social media or email to make contact. They have even been known to telephone their victims as a first introduction. These scams are also known as catfishing.

    Scammers typically create fake online profiles designed to lure you in. They may use a fictional name, or falsely take on the identities of real, trusted people such as military personnel, aid workers or professionals working abroad.
    Dating and romance scammers will express strong emotions for you in a relatively short period of time, and will suggest you move the relationship away from the website to a more private channel, such as phone, email or instant messaging. They often claim to be from Australia or another western country, but travelling or working overseas.
    Scammers will go to great lengths to gain your interest and trust, such as showering you with loving words, sharing personal information and even sending you gifts. They may take months to build what may feel like the romance of a lifetime and may even pretend to book flights to visit you, but never actually come.
    Once they have gained your trust and your defences are down, they will ask you (either subtly or directly) for money, gifts or your banking/credit card details. They may also ask you to send pictures or videos of yourself, possibly of an intimate nature.
    Often the scammer will pretend to need the money for some sort of personal emergency. For example, they may claim to have a severely ill family member who requires immediate medical attention such as an expensive operation, or they may claim financial hardship due to an unfortunate run of bad luck such as a failed business or mugging in the street. The scammer may also claim they want to travel to visit you, but cannot afford it unless you are able to lend them money to cover flights or other travel expenses.
    Sometimes the scammer will send you valuable items such as laptop computers and mobile phones, and ask you to resend them somewhere. They will invent some reason why they need you to send the goods but this is just a way for them to cover up their criminal activity. Alternatively they may ask you to buy the goods yourself and send them somewhere. You might even be asked to accept money into your bank account and then transfer it to someone else.
    Warning - the above scenarios are very likely to be forms of money laundering which is a criminal offence. Never agree to transfer money for someone else.

    Sometimes the scammer will tell you about a large amount of money or gold they need to transfer out of their country, and offer you a share of it. They will tell you they need your money to cover administrative fees or taxes.
    Dating and romance scammers can also pose a risk to your personal safety as they are often part of international criminal networks. Scammers may attempt to lure their victims overseas, putting you in dangerous situations that can have tragic consequences.
    Regardless of how you are scammed, you could end up losing a lot of money. Online dating and romance scams cheat Australians out of millions every year. The money you send to scammers is almost always impossible to recover and, in addition, you may feel long-lasting emotional betrayal at the hands of someone you thought loved you.
    Real life story

    Georgina's Facebook fianc leaves her flat broke

    Warning signs

    • You meet someone online and after just a few contacts they profess strong feelings for you, and ask to chat with you privately. If you met on an dating site they will try and move you away from the site and communicate via chat or email.
    • Their profile on the internet dating website or their Facebook page is not consistent with what they tell you. For example, their profile picture looks different to their description of themselves, or they say they are university educated but their English is poor.
    • After gaining your trust often waiting weeks, months or even years they tell you an elaborate story and ask for money, gifts or your bank account/credit card details.
    • Their messages are often poorly written, vague and may even address you by the wrong name.
    • If you dont send money straight away, their messages and calls become more desperate, persistent or direct. If you do send money, they continue to ask you to send more.
    • They dont keep their promises and always have an excuse for why they can't travel to meet you and why they always need more money.

    Protect yourself

    • Always consider the possibility that the approach may be a scam, particularly if the warning signs listed above appear. Try to remove the emotion from your decision making no matter how caring or persistent the prospective partner is.
    • Do an image search of your admirer to help determine if they really are who they say they are. You can use image search services such as Google(link is external) or TinEye(link is external).
    • Be alert to things like spelling and grammar mistakes, inconsistencies in their stories and others signs that its a scam like their camera never working if you want to Skype each other.
    • Be cautious when sharing personal pictures or videos with prospective partners, especially if youve never met them before. Scammers are known to blackmail their targets using compromising material.
    • If you agree to meet a prospective partner in person, tell family and friends where you are going. Scamwatch strongly recommends you do not travel overseas to meet someone you have never met before. Consider carefully the advice onwww.smarttraveller.gov.au(link is external) before making any plans.
    • Be wary of requests for money. Never send money or give credit card details, online account details, or copies of important personal documents to anyone you dont know or trust.
    • Avoid any arrangement with a stranger that asks for up-front payment via money order, wire transfer, international funds transfer, pre-loaded card or electronic currency. It is rare to recover money sent this way.
    • Do not agree to transfer money for someone else: money laundering is a criminal offence.
    • Be very careful about how much personal information you share on social network sites. Scammers can use your information and pictures to create a fake identity or to target you with a scam.

    Have you been scammed?

    If you think you have been scammed, report it to the website, app, or social media site where the scammer first approached you. Let them know the scammers profile name and any other details that may help them to stop others being scammed.
    If you think you have provided your account details to a scammer, contact your bank or financial institution immediately.
    We encourage you to report scams to the ACCC via the report a scam page. This helps us to warn people about current scams, monitor trends and disrupt scams where possible. Please include details of the scam contact you received, for example, email or screenshot.
    We also provide guidance on protecting yourself from scams and where to get help.
    Spread the word to your friends and family to protect them.

  3. #3
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    Feb 2008

    Re: Dating Site Scam

    Online dating is very popular today with the advances
    of technology and the increase of people who use
    computers. Online dating is a system for organizing a
    date and can be an excellent way to meet that special

    Today, online dating is one of the most popular
    systems for meeting someone new to go on a date with.

    There are many online dating websites you can visit
    and see people who are looking to meet someone new.
    You can post your picture and create a profile on one
    of them too.

    This will allow you to tell everything about yourself.
    This way, people can see if you enjoy the same types
    of activities they do and you can see if certain
    people look to be like someone you might be interested

    Online dating has proven to be a successful method for
    meeting people and setting up dates. Many people have
    continued their relationships and even been married
    through online dating methods.

    All relationships through online dating arent
    successful but you may meet a new friend if you are
    not compatible for dating.

    When you consider online dating, it is important to
    remember you need to be safe. The Internet is not
    always what it seems and people are not always honest
    with everything about themselves.

    You should be sure when you go on your first online
    date you are somewhere you feel comfortable with and
    be sure to protect yourself at all times.

    You can have a fantastic experience and meet your
    perfect match but you dont want to be a statistic
    because you believed everything the other person said
    on the Internet.

  4. #4
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    Sep 2004

    Re: Dating Site Scam

    yah i saw some stories on DR.PHIL!! AMAZING!!
    i do not endorse/recommend any advertising on scam.com associated with my name /posts or otherwise. thank you

  5. #5
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    Sep 2004

    Re: Dating Site Scam

    looking for love on the internet! sometimes worldwide!
    i do not endorse/recommend any advertising on scam.com associated with my name /posts or otherwise. thank you

  6. #6
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    May 2018

    Re: Dating Site Scam

    It is very important to be the victim of such scammers. I know that this is very unpleasant when someone jeers at you feeling. To avoid such situation I started using only this site because I know that there are real and adequate people. I hope you will see my advice

  7. #7
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    Jun 2020

    Re: Dating Site Scam

    Quote Originally Posted by Strangerso View Post
    It is very important to be the victim of such scammers. I know that this is very unpleasant when someone jeers at you feeling. To avoid such situation I started using only this site because I know that there are real and adequate people. I hope you will see my advice
    This is a serious issue.

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    Jul 2020

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