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    Dating, S E X,And Relationship Consciousness.

    Dating, S E X,
    And Relationship Consciousness.


    "Sexually Deviant Behavior"

    ***QUESTION***

    Stephane,

    My girlfriend has a rather extensive sexual history, and it
    bothers me.

    Nothing too abnormal, but rather public sex, cheating, open
    relationships, enjoys watching porn, cheated in her last
    relationship several times, has lots of sex toys, and
    behavior that some time ago I would find arousing, but now I
    really find unbalanced and dangerous.

    Recently, I just feel this hit in my solar-plexus and heart.
    It wasn't until today that I considered the possibility of
    her having a sexual disorder.

    Is she sexually evolved or sexually deviant? No matter how
    much she has explained to me her behaviours, they always
    sound like excuses. I wanted to have your insight in this,
    since she is overall a highly intelligent, loving and caring
    person, but that side of her is still disturbing me. We love
    each other very much, and am working hard on my compassion
    through all this.

    Thanks again Stephane, and appreciate your patience and
    caring for people very much. Infinite blessings.

    JL


    >>>MY COMMENTS:

    She is living in Lust Consciousness, she's not in the
    Heart. More like a dog chasing it's own tail...

    I guarantee you that she's afraid of death, afraid of love,
    afraid of rejection, and basically afraid of many things.
    And she isn't FACING her fears.

    Like most people, she is stuck in her head,
    mind-identified.

    Her mind is filled with thoughts and voices and stress and
    worry and regret, guilt, shame... like most people.

    Most people are running around thinking that happiness is
    "out there", and that love is "out there", somewhere
    outside of themselves.

    Like most people, she is ASLEEP.

    Sexual promiscuity is basically our desperate attempt to
    awaken, it gives us a temporary high, in the same way that
    alcohol and drugs give a temporary high.

    Sex, drugs, rock and roll... these things temporarily
    distract us, they drown out the lower levels of guilt,
    shame, stress, ego, fear, etc. and allow us to experience
    the truth of what We Are: Love.

    It's not the sex or the booze that people become addicted
    to, it's the taste of higher consciousness.

    Now, the problem for this girl isn't the sex itself, it's
    the "natural law violations" as I call them.

    She goes out and cheats on her boyfriend. She violates the
    law of integrity. So she feels sexy and validated for an
    hour, but the next day, she then attracts the energies of
    guilt, shame, regret, worry, and so on.

    Now she feels like an ass, so she goes out and has more sex,
    to distract herself from the pain. It's a viscious circle,
    you see.

    Personally, integrity is the minium requirement for a
    healthy relationship. As soon as I see a girl isn't
    standing in integrity, I move on, because there is literally
    no hope. She's not choosing love, she is choosing fear and
    I can't have that.

    So yeah, sex and drugs and rock & roll aren't bad, we
    don't need to judge them because they all serve a purpose.

    The Ego is filled with DESIRE, and the more desires we feed
    it, the hungrier it gets.

    I have gone to the extremes in all those areas and I'm
    better off for it. I learned things about myself while being
    high on drugs, I have learned from "sexually deviant
    behavior" and I have found a lot of truth at the bottom of
    many bottles of red wine.

    I have learned firsthand that no matter what you take and
    how much and in what combination, it leads to a dead end
    because it attracts the lower energies of guilt, shame, ego,
    etc.

    Anyone reading this coming down off cocaine knows what I'm
    talking about! You can experience a false "heaven" and as
    soon as you run out of coke, you're in Hell, literally in
    Hell.

    There are mornings when I woke up next to 3 or 4 girls (and
    15 used condoms all over the floor of my apartment), I have
    gone to these extremes and not once did any of it lead to
    any true, lasting happiness or bliss.

    The Ego is filled with DESIRE, and the more desires we feed
    it, the hungrier it gets.

    Eventually, as I raised my consciousness to higher
    levels...

    The sex, drugs, and rock & roll stuff actually starts to
    become BORING.

    Drugs won't take me to higher highs than the high I'm
    already experiencing right now.

    Neither will sex... I see beautiful women and I now view
    them as a CHORE.

    I could have sex with her, but it always comes with a price.
    And if I want her to become a girlfriend, then I'll have to
    spend six months teaching her how to wake up, how to
    transcend fear...

    Women and sex are like homework to me now, they do not offer
    me anything that isn't already within. The bliss of a
    "good lay" experience already flows through me, you see.

    The only thing that leads to bliss is Surrendering Fear.

    This is when the light of the Self shines forth and one is
    "blissed out" no matter what is happening around them, no
    matter what!

    (You don't go around chasing orgasms when you're alredy
    feeling one, permanently.)

    > The bottom line:

    We are here on this Earth to overcome our fears, you see.

    And until we truly face our deepest, darkest fears and
    surrender them, well unfortunately we have to keep coming
    back and re-incarnating over and over until we finally face
    those fears.

    Only then do we move on to higher octaves of existence,
    beyond being a piece of human meat.

    Life on earth is very, very difficult and I for one am not
    intending to come back.

    ...Choosing parents all over again, being a baby, getting
    picked on in school, having to work crappy jobs and going
    from one painful experience to the next until I re-awaken to
    the truth of what I am?

    Ha, no thanks, I'm done with this place! ^_^

    Although, I have to admit, Earthly life is pretty good when
    you surrender the fear of death. Do this honestly and
    completely, and your body will start to feel like it is
    experiencing a continuous orgasm. Colors seem brighter, and
    the world looks like it is moving slower.

    And the miracles... money handles itself, health handles
    itself, relationships handle themselves, everything in life
    becomes perfect. All because of overcoming fear and
    surrendering to Love.

    Sweet!

    Try it guys... you'll like it.

    Everything else in life leads to a dead end.

    Hurry up though, because soon you body will die and you'll
    have to start all over again!


    Many Blessings,
    Stephane
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    Re: Dating, S E X,And Relationship Consciousness.

    BWA..HA...HA...HA...HA....HA!!!!!

    Sorry, that is just about the funniest post I have ever read!

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    Re: Dating, S E X,And Relationship Consciousness.

    Quote Originally Posted by LogicallyYours View Post
    BWA..HA...HA...HA...HA....HA!!!!!

    Sorry, that is just about the funniest post I have ever read!
    lol I couldn't agree more! HAHAHAHA These are my favorite parts:

    "There are mornings when I woke up next to 3 or 4 girls (and
    15 used condoms all over the floor of my apartment), I have
    gone to these extremes and not once did any of it lead to
    any true, lasting happiness or bliss."

    Yeah in your dreams buddy! HAHAHAHA I see those drugs are of the finest quality!

    "Neither will sex... I see beautiful women and I now view
    them as a CHORE."

    So "waking up" means you have to be gay too? I've heard that crystal meth makes you not desire sex any more.... you really should lay off the drugs.


    OH and the BEST spot is where you drop a link to a phishing scam! Sweet!
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    Re: Dating, S E X,And Relationship Consciousness.

    the link was to his new letter.
    and lead to his home page...
    http://www.ideagasms.net/ideagasms-home/


    Stephane toured with Mystery at on time.

    http://www.themysterymethod.com/

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mystery_Method

    Here is an interview with David DeAngelo









    (4 parts of 11)





    Stephane was one of the best pickup artists in America before going down the spiritual path.

    http://www.mininova.org/tor/807286

    You guys don't know fukc or anything about women.


    It seems like the difference between 'learning' something and knowing it through experience.

    Steph, thanks for spreading the knowledge. The world truly appreciates it.
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    The internet is the last light of truth and hope...it is truly of the people, by the people and for the people. We must not let it be subverted for any purpose other than the truth. And that truth shall spread to every man woman and child across the globe. No longer will those in power carry the sole means to decide for us, yet we now shall have the power to decide to tune them out.

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    Re: Dating, S E X,And Relationship Consciousness.

    [QUOTE=Lord_jag;492486]lol I couldn't agree more! HAHAHAHA These are my favorite parts:

    "There are mornings when I woke up next to 3 or 4 girls (and
    15 used condoms all over the floor of my apartment), I have
    gone to these extremes and not once did any of it lead to
    any true, lasting happiness or bliss."

    Yeah in your dreams buddy! HAHAHAHA I see those drugs are of the finest quality!

    "Neither will sex... I see beautiful women and I now view
    them as a CHORE."

    But seriously, your story: "upon awakening next morning". You must be a "horse" and are you sure your "thing" didn't just wither away. As well, you weren't "given anything to remember, later"?yb: How long's it been? Might have the "ticking time-bomb virus HIV in you. Heard it takes several years, sometimes, to manifest.
    Anyhow, you sound "burned out" now. Too bad. Usually this is the open road to a future sexual abuser.
    Vasudeva

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    there's lots of roads to heaven thru experiences!? some are more pleasant than others!?goes to ones starting point in life!?what level of ability/confidence/freedom of mind has been inherited/realized!?:freak3: :crazy1: :rasta: : hehe!!......just askn....
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