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    Are Women Held To Higher Standards Then Men & why?

    This thread was created in response to another thread that was created titled "27 Things Every Lady Should Know To Have Better Sex" http://scam.com/showthread.php?p=981805#post981805 where the username "Tulip" had finally admitted that women are held to higher standards than men.

    Tulip did not state directly that women are held to higher standards than men only stating that women would be labeled as a "whore" or a "slut". (and then changed it to If women start posting posts with sexual content see how easily you and others would or could form the wrong opinion) She quickly retracted the "whore" and "slut" comments before I had hit the quick reply button and did not know that she had changed the words which was the reason why I had used the words

    Quote Originally Posted by Tulip View Post
    Originally Posted by Kermit The Frog
    LOL.....Tulip even you on that thread were eager to see the sexy pictures. On how to wear a thong the right and wrong way. I dont know what your buff is about this thread

    You were mighty determined to see the pictures though





    You prove my point just by what you have said in this post.

    I was concerned about why the pictures would not show up on my computer. I really could have cared less about the pictures themselves.

    If women start posting posts with sexual content see how easily you and others would or could form the wrong opinion.
    Quote Originally Posted by Kermit The Frog View Post
    Good Grief Tulip....

    So are you saying whats holding you back from your sexual inhibitations on this thread is your fear of people calling you a slut or a whore or whatever?? And its ok to post pictures of attractive men because no one would call them a slut or whore??

    if that's what your saying then I unfortunately do agree with you as that is the way are society is

    I guess the difference between you and I (because I am in the same boat as you are in ) is that I could care less what people think.

    You also have to remember that your annoymous on this forum the only thing we know about you is that your username is a tulip
    Tulip then tried to avoid my questions and instead ask me questions (which i of course answered)

    Quote Originally Posted by Tulip View Post
    Kermit are you a man or a woman?

    Do you yourself have a sexual problem you are dealing with such as premature ejaculation?

    Are you wanting ways your sex partner can pleasure herself because you cannot please her?

    Is this thread all about you and your problems?
    Quote Originally Posted by Kermit The Frog View Post
    please see my response above



    no




    no



    no.


    Ive answered your questions but you've still avoided my questions
    Quote Originally Posted by Tulip View Post
    I am pretty much done discussing this with you.

    It seems you are a very selfish man and you do not respect how a woman feels about discussing this subject.

    Let's just wait and see if you have any takers on discussing orgasms and ways to pleasure oneself sexually.

    We do have posters posting addresses to animal sex sites and things like that so you may get some good advice if we wait a bit.
    Quote Originally Posted by Kermit The Frog View Post
    im still waiting for your answers from the questions ive asked you.

    you've asked me questions and ive answered but when i ask you you ignore these questions
    Tulip was then confused and wasn't sure what I was talking about
    Quote Originally Posted by Tulip View Post
    Kermit i asked you if you were a man or a woman and you said no.

    What are you then?

    If you really think you are a frog, I have no more to say to you.:nervouss:



    Repeat your question to me because I did not understand what you posted.
    At this time I still had no idea that she had retracted the "slut" and "whore" comments from above

    Quote Originally Posted by Kermit The Frog View Post
    im of the opposite gender and in the same boat but I most certainly dont consider myself a slut or a whore though by talking about sexuality i know men do say these things which i can understand how many women could have this view and I myself have been called these names.... but I dont care what they think .....i do agree that theres a double standard in our society though

    have you ever heard anyone call a man a whore or a slut... they would probably take it as a compliment
    After finally getting my question answered

    Quote Originally Posted by Tulip View Post
    Kermit

    From what you have posted now I think you are saying you are a woman.

    Your question to me is

    Are women held to a higher standard then men when it comes to sex.

    I say yes.

    I then responded with:


    Quote Originally Posted by Kermit The Frog View Post
    Case in point..... I agree wiith you......It took us awhile to get to this point but we got there
    Tulip then stated the following

    Quote Originally Posted by Tulip View Post
    I think Kermit was asking me if i thought men could be more free sexually than women. That women get labeled a whore or slut easily and men do not.
    .
    Yes Tulip whore and slut were the words that you used originally and then retracted with the words (If women start posting posts with sexual content see how easily you and others would or could form the wrong opinion) it was only up to this point that I went back to the original post that I noticed tulip had retracted the words "whore" and "slut".


    So the Question is why are us women labeled differently than men when it comes to having sex.

    When women have sex with a lot of guys they are labeled as "sluts" and "whores"

    but when men have sex with a lot of women they are considered "lucky" "they scored" and brag about the number of partners they slept with to their friends.
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    Re: Are Women Held To Higher Standards Then Men &

    Kermit I will try to explain

    1. The article you posted from AOL about sex is done in a tasteful way and I had nothing bad to say about the article itself or the thread.

    2. You asked me to share as a woman how I pleasured myself sexually.

    3. I told you I felt it would be inappropriate for me to do that on a public forum.

    4. I said my discussing and debating how I pleasure myself sexually could turn pornographic or cause other members to get the wrong impression of me. They could say distasteful things, consider me a slut or whore like for talking about such personal sexual matters on a public forum. I feel this could happen to any woman or man talking about how they pleasure themselves sexually.

    5. You then got into this higher standard thing. Some people hold women to a higher standard and some do not. It all depends on what we are talking about. Example
    A man may date a promiscuous woman and have sex with her but not want to marry that kind of girl. A woman may feel a man that has slept around has more experience and it would not influence their marrying him. Just depends on the situation and the person involved.
    On a whole I think women that sleep around and act inappropriately sexually would be labeled a whore or slut before a man doing the same thing. I also feel men are held to a certain standard. Bill Clinton and other professional people have paid a high price for being promiscuous. It has led to criminal charges for some of those men. A court of law decides when sexual activity becomes criminal and some of these men buy their way out of criminal charges. Just saying men like women pay a price for their actions when it comes to sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tulip View Post
    Kermit I will try to explain

    1. The article you posted from AOL about sex is done in a tasteful way and I had nothing bad to say about the article itself or the thread.

    2. You asked me to share as a woman how I pleasured myself sexually.

    3. I told you I felt it would be inappropriate for me to do that on a public forum.

    4. I said my discussing and debating how I pleasure myself sexually could turn pornographic or cause other members to get the wrong impression of me. They could say distasteful things, consider me a slut or whore like for talking about such personal sexual matters on a public forum. I feel this could happen to any woman or man talking about how they pleasure themselves sexually.

    5. You then got into this higher standard thing. Some people hold women to a higher standard and some do not. It all depends on what we are talking about. Example
    A man may date a promiscuous woman and have sex with her but not want to marry that kind of girl. A woman may feel a man that has slept around has more experience and it would not influence their marrying him. Just depends on the situation and the person involved.
    On a whole I think women that sleep around and act inappropriately sexually would be labeled a whore or slut before a man doing the same thing. I also feel men are held to a certain standard. Bill Clinton and other professional people have paid a high price for being promiscuous. It has led to criminal charges for some of those men. A court of law decides when sexual activity becomes criminal and some of these men buy their way out of criminal charges. Just saying men like women pay a price for their actions when it comes to sex.

    Have you ever heard a man being called a "slut" or "whore" though??? I understad and agree with your whole post in its entirety. However, my question still remains:

    Why is it still ok for men to have multiple sex partners and it be praised but if a women has multiple sex partners it is not ok and frowwned upon.

    This is as it pertains to society as a whole.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kermit The Frog View Post
    Have you ever heard a man being called a "slut" or "whore" though??? I understad and agree with your whole post in its entirety. However, my question still remains:

    Why is it still ok for men to have multiple sex partners and it be praised but if a women has multiple sex partners it is not ok and frowwned upon.

    This is as it pertains to society as a whole.
    Hopefully some male members of this forum will post how they feel about this. Maybe we will get some answers to your questions from what they post.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tulip View Post
    Hopefully some male members of this forum will post how they feel about this. Maybe we will get some answers to your questions from what they post.

    I dont have a lot of confidence in the male gender posters on this forum..

    Have you seen Old Timers, Mike!'s, knight mares, ChrisDoyles, Ohein56, Fathers posts???? they are nothing but a bunch of rubbish and insults.

    The only male poster that I have confidence in who might be able to contribute something intelligent is Jebaroo as he seems pretty intelligent. But then again the definition of a jebaroo according to the urban dictionary is a male prostitute who pays for sexual activities.

    I think it will be left up to us to figure this one out. Of course everyones opinion is valuable though of course can and more than likely will be challenged.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kermit The Frog View Post
    I dont have a lot of confidence in the male gender posters on this forum..

    Have you seen Old Timers, Mike!'s, knight mares, ChrisDoyles, Ohein56, Fathers posts???? they are nothing but a bunch of rubbish and insults.

    The only male poster that I have confidence in who might be able to contribute something intelligent is Jebaroo as he seems pretty intelligent. But then again the definition of a jebaroo according to the urban dictionary is a male prostitute who pays for sexual activities.

    I think it will be left up to us to figure this one out. Of course everyones opinion is valuable though of course can and more than likely will be challenged.
    Kermit---let me explain---we also dont have a lot of confidence in you!

    In fact,lets not beat about the bush here,---you are a bufoon! (Im being polite here as this forum is viewed by minors,it must be cos Kermit sure behaves like one!)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Father View Post
    Kermit---let me explain---we also dont have a lot of confidence in you!

    In fact,lets not beat about the bush here,---you are a bufoon! (Im being polite here as this forum is viewed by minors,it must be cos Kermit sure behaves like one!)


    See what I mean tulip.........

    I rest my case
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kermit The Frog View Post
    See what I mean tulip.........

    I rest my case
    I wonder what Tulip really thinks---? :crazy1:
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    Of course there's double standards, 99% unfair to women.

    Man has many sex partners, it's ok.If a woman does, she's given the label of slut, or worse.

    Man comes home from work, sitting in front of the tv is ok. Women are epected to come home, cook, clean, and raise the kids.

    It is unfair, but how do ya change it? It's beyond me.

    On the sex issue tho, 1 comment, ok?

    I've known women who have had a great many partners, and I consider them decent. And I've also known women with very few, yet I consider them to be, well, you get the idea.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brywilson2 View Post
    Of course there's double standards, 99% unfair to women.

    Man has many sex partners, it's ok.If a woman does, she's given the label of slut, or worse.

    Man comes home from work, sitting in front of the tv is ok. Women are epected to come home, cook, clean, and raise the kids.

    It is unfair, but how do ya change it? It's beyond me.

    On the sex issue tho, 1 comment, ok?

    I've known women who have had a great many partners, and I consider them decent. And I've also known women with very few, yet I consider them to be, well, you get the idea.
    Where is it written that women should do the cleaning,cooking,laundry blah blah? In my household I do all the cooking,but by choice,because I enjoy creative things,and food should be creative.
    I also dust the TV,in case anything decent is coming on!
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    Quote Originally Posted by brywilson2 View Post
    Of course there's double standards, 99% unfair to women.

    Man has many sex partners, it's ok.If a woman does, she's given the label of slut, or worse.

    Man comes home from work, sitting in front of the tv is ok. Women are epected to come home, cook, clean, and raise the kids.

    It is unfair, but how do ya change it? It's beyond me.

    On the sex issue tho, 1 comment, ok?

    I've known women who have had a great many partners, and I consider them decent. And I've also known women with very few, yet I consider them to be, well, you get the idea.

    I agree with you with everything that you have stated except for what is bolded.


    While I think much of the older generationsal males (ages 50 and up ) still have this perceived view that the woman should take care of the mans every need.

    It is my belief that this stereotype is changing dramatically with the younger male generation (ages 40 and below) much of this male generation is taking many more responsibilities such as helping clean the house, taking care of the kids ect. In many cases I am seeing many men staying home caring for the children while the wife is at work. This was unheard of in the 1950s and 1960s as the woman was forced to obey her husbands every command. Woman do have many more rights now then they did back then

    what has not changed is the unfair labeling that woman face where men are not faced.

    BryWilson2, if your a male and were called a slut or a whore how would you feel??? If your like the majority of the male population you'd probably feel a great sense of pride and brag about it to your friends.

    But if you were called a "pimp" or a "player" would you feel different???? This is of course 20/20 and using hindsight vision and depending the truthfulality of your answers will determine whether or not we can get to the root to the problem on why its ok to call a woman a slut or whore if they have many sex partners but praise men who have sex with the same woman who are being labeled a slut or a whore.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Father View Post
    I wonder what Tulip really thinks---? :crazy1:
    What do I really think about what, Father?

    I have heard from people who say what is said on a public chat board just does not matter. So I always wonder who is being truthful with what they say.

    I know I read a post that Kermit made saying he was a guy. I have tried to find that post but so far can not remember where I read it. It could have been on realscam, I need to take a look over there. OT always saying he/she left me wondering if Kermit was a male or female but I always thought male. Now I am shocked female. But I am not sure even though Kermit is saying female. I just know I read a post made by Kermit saying he was a guy.

    Maybe being honest is not important when chatting on forums.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kermit The Frog View Post
    I agree with you with everything that you have stated except for what is bolded.


    While I think much of the older generationsal males (ages 50 and up ) still have this perceived view that the woman should take care of the mans every need.

    It is my belief that this stereotype is changing dramatically with the younger male generation (ages 40 and below) much of this male generation is taking many more responsibilities such as helping clean the house, taking care of the kids ect. In many cases I am seeing many men staying home caring for the children while the wife is at work. This was unheard of in the 1950s and 1960s as the woman was forced to obey her husbands every command. Woman do have many more rights now then they did back then

    That was my point.

    what has not changed is the unfair labeling that woman face where men are not faced.

    BryWilson2, if your a male and were called a slut or a whore how would you feel??? If your like the majority of the male population you'd probably feel a great sense of pride and brag about it to your friends.
    Wrong Answer, Blinky!

    But if you were called a "pimp" or a "player" would you feel different???? This is of course 20/20 and using hindsight vision and depending the truthfulality of your answers will determine whether or not we can get to the root to the problem on why its ok to call a woman a slut or whore if they have many sex partners but praise men who have sex with the same woman who are being labeled a slut or a whore.
    Thats why I said it was a double standard.
    If someone called me a 'playa' I'd prob shoot them. I'm white, small town, old fashioned.

    Besides, while ive had my share of sex, I feel no need to brag or highlight it.

    Now, crawl back in your pond.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iamwil View Post
    If Kermit asked you how you please yourself sexually....he's simply a pervert. That is obviously not a question you simply ask someone. It doesn't mean they are prude...it means you (kermit) don't know what is innapropriate.

    Now if the forum were called everything you want to know about sex and aren't afraid to ask or tell....that would be a different story....and quite possibly a forum that tulip would not participate in.

    as to whether there is a double standard or not in this country...

    the fact that you question this is indicative of your understanding.
    To which I'd agree...tis all quite obvious to most I would think...


    but the question is why?
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    Kermit...the real question is if we did an IP search for your location and then cross referenced it with a list/location of convicted sex offenders would it be likely that your name:

    a) Is currently on the list

    b) Will soon be on the list

    OR

    c) They are lax about the shared computer with the sticky keyboard in your cellblock.

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    And just maybe nobody wants to answer you Kermit because it is really none of your damm business. so why not take a hint and go some place else.

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